If you are a Christian couple and are NOT using Christian sex toys then you are missing out on some very pleasurable and acceptable sexual experiences.
But don’t feel bad that you’ve been missing out on incredible sex.
You see, most Christians believe, wrongly, that there is no such thing as “Christian sex toys”. That is to say they do not believe that any type of outside intimacy aid is allowed during sex.
It’s not true! There are actually many very acceptable Christian sex toys that couples can, and should, use during intimacy. But, of course, there are definitely some intimacy aids you should avoid.
Here I will provide some simple yet highly effective and ACCEPTABLE intimacy toys for couples to get started with. I will also provide examples of some intimate aids that should definitely be AVOIDED.
Erotic oils and lubes. Have you ever poured an erotic oil all over a particular body part of your partner during intimacy? Wow! The sensation is incredible for both and sexual pleasures are heightened greatly. Oils and lubes are great ways to get into toys. They are simple to use and a good gateway into exploring sexual variations leading to a much better sex life.
Body Deserts. Have you ever applied some body desert to your partner and then proceeded to lick it off of their body? Wow! Incredible sensations which serve as an excellent gateway for oral pleasures. This is another simple intimacy idea for toys, and again it provides that much needed variation for an improved sex life.
What to Avoid:
Blow Up Dolls. Have you ever included blow up dolls in your intimacy life, either alone or as a couple? Hopefully not, as this is a no-no in Christian intimacy. You never want to bring in a third party during your sexual experience, even if that third part is a doll. Now days blow up sex dolls are becoming increasingly more lifelike and real, making the temptation for Christian couples to use them greater. Some men for instance have been using them because sex with their wives is just not that fulfilling. They rationalize that they are not cheating since the doll is not real, but c’mon, it really is a form of cheating and certainly shouldn’t be allowed to be used as a married Christian.
Pornography. Porno for married Christians has been debated here and there, but typically it is frowned upon. Obviously the harder more extreme sexual degradation adult films should be avoided. Often what is debated is the lesser “soft core” material, some of which can mask as instructional guide. Certainly instruction is VERY important for Christians, as they should definitely be experiencing awesome, mind blowing sex. But you can get excellent online instructional e-books for all your instruction needs and advice, rather than having to watch soft-core.